One common justification I hear from people who like to hook up is that, “It’s okay if they use me, because I’m using them too.” That is a terrible way to look at it. Just because you’re only spending one night with someone doesn’t mean you should treat him or her like an object. Besides, the hookup can’t be that enjoyable if each person is simply “using” the other’s body, because sex requires a certain amount of teamwork.
Its not like me to post sex pozz stuff but this was something that always irked me in my late teens/early 20’s when friends would talk about hooking up. I felt weird that I was so ‘precious’ and sensitive about my body. That hook ups made me feel like shit about myself. I like hearing this stuff from sex pozzers, I might not agree with all their thangs but this is an important message to preach.